The word “Talk” begins with “T” or “Tea” for the matter at hand. It is not just a coincidence. There is a connection beyond the common alphabet. But before I go on to explain the subtle link between these two beautiful ingredients of life, let me first “tea” up the topic by talking about talk.
We talk every day. At home, we talk to our spouse, we talk to our children. At work, we talk to our colleagues, we talk to our customers. In addition to traditional face-to-face talks, we talk virtually through phone, email, and Internet chat. We not only talk to each other, but we also talk to ourselves too.
Like foods and drinks, talk is an important part of our daily life. The most distinguishing characteristic that separates human beings from the rest is that we are social and live in a society. Our survival, as well as our happiness and triumph, are so much dependent upon the interaction among ourselves and talk is the most used form of interaction we have with each other.
Let’s evaluate how effective we are at talking.
I find we are great at opening a talk. We say “how are you” every day to everyone, to our neighbors, to our co-workers, and even to strangers. But I also find that we are not that good at talking when it comes to the real meaning of talk.
When we say “how are you?” we don’t really mean it. We don’t look the person in the eyes and wait patiently to listen to his or her response. We don’t really care about the answer.
We don’t talk much to our spouses, our children, and our parents. When we do talk to them, we tend to rush the conversation because we are stressed from our long commutes and challenging jobs in addition to mundane day-to-day chores.
Many of us are sons or daughters as well as parents. We know we should call and talk to our parents on regular basis. But many of us make the calls when we are on the road driving or waiting at the checkout line in a grocery store.
Not to mention our poor record of talking when it comes to challenging situations such as talking to mediate conflicts, disputes, and differences in ideas.
Along with unhealthy junk foods, talks have become hasty and unfulfilled.
Discovering the many health benefits of tea, more and more people are turning to green leaves for the health of our body, mind, and spirit. For the health of our human relationship, let’s add tea to our talk too.
Tea can calm our temperament down and warm our hearts up. Tea can slow down our pace and even help us pause when we attempt to rush. Only when we are calm and warm, we are able to enjoy the conversation and bring enjoyment to others.
People from eastern cultures generally are not as expressive as those from western cultures. For example, they hardly show their passion for their loved ones with words like “I love you.” That does not mean they talk less. They actually talk more. How can you say less and talk more? Isn’t it contradictive? Well, the answer lies in the Tao of tea.
Next time before you pick up the phone and call someone; or when you and your friends get together, make a cup or a pot of hot and aromatic tea first. Let the rising mist, the unfolding leaves, and the soothing liquor kick off the talk. Infuse the magic leaves into the interaction gradually and take the time to brew the conversation slowly. You will be amazed by the results of a talk infused with tea through time.
Tea, talk, and time are the most powerful trio that works in tandem to enrich, enhance and enlighten our lives.
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